We live in a society where men with means are automatically considered to be ‘bad’ guys while struggling dudes are good. This is definitely not true. Being good or bad has nothing to do with what’s in your bank account.
There are some signs of a good guy to watch out for if you want to make sure you end up with a good partner.
He talks through any disagreement
When you’re in a relationship, even with a good guy, there will be disagreement. But he should not shut you out. He’s mature enough to talk through any argument with you rather than giving you the silent treatment or insisting he must get an apology.
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He’s open
Another one of the signs of a good guy to watch out for has to do with his openness. If he’s being shady about his past or feeling the need to hide his phone from you, this is suspicious. Everyone deserves their privacy, sure. But going over and beyond to hide something in a relationship usually means there’s something he’s afraid you’ll find. And in those cases, it’s usually something bad.
He respects you
Truly respecting someone means he takes your feelings into consideration and understands your stand, even when he does not agree. He’s not controlling, abusive and cruel to you.
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He cares about you
A good guy knows when you need him and he’ll be there for you. It could be coming around when you’re feeling unwell or always there with a pep talk or encouragement when you have a bad experience. He cares about your health and he shows this by being there for you.
He’s consistent
You may see these signs of a good guy in your man, but then realize that it shows every once in a while. If this is the case, chances are, he’s probably faking it. A good guy will be consistent with his kindness, respect, attention, etc. He won’t blow hot and cold. Those little things he does that make you happy, he won’t stop doing them. Being a good guy is not just about impressing you, it’s about making a choice to be this guy over and over again.
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